Leave Him Alone: The Single Married Man
Leave that married man alone! He is not going to leave his wife to be with you. Don’t allow him to convince you through social media posts that he is not happy. I don’t care how long you have known him and how much of a nice guy he seems to be; he is who he shows you he is. Listen carefully when he talks to you and says things about other people relationships and the way they behave; most likely he is talking about his self and trying to get the attention off of him. He does things and create problems to create a wedge between you guys especially when he knows events are coming up that will be posted on social media. I’m not saying that it’s not true that he might not be in happy in his marriage, but don’t believe the crumbs he’s feeding you. Oh, and when you kindly point things out to him, he immediately gets on the defense and plays the victim and try to make you think you’re CRAZY. No, you are NOT crazy, the situation is what your intuitive mind is telling you. He likes you because you’re actually NOT like the other women that tend to fall for him, but he doesn’t like the fact that you are not sweating him NOR are you going to fall into the hole of his drama. He’s drawn to your empathetic nature and how easy it is to love you. You’re not a complicated person, you like simplicity, but he’s not used to that. He grew up in dysfunction, and it seems that he thrives in it. When things are going smoothly, he just has to ruffle feathers. Is he a narcissist? Maybe. Like I said, he probably has no intentions of leaving his wife. He has groomed her over the years to make her comfortable in the dysfunctional environment that he’s created. He may not be happy, and the same probably can be said for her, but she enjoys the lifestyle that is afforded to her. All she has to do is spend money, look pretty, take pictures, and post on social media. It’s a shame and seems like a miserable way to live. Don’t sell your soul to be around someone like that. You deserve so much better and the truth is, he KNOWS that you do.